Hardsports London – Lady Scarlett

International Femdom Summit – Bucharest 19-21 April 2023

If you follow me on Twitter you will know that I recently attended the International Femdom Summit in Bucharest, Romania. The summit was such an enjoyable and rewarding event that I needed to tell you what I got up to during my stay. Not to mention I haven’t blogged in a long time.

This year was the inaugural Summit and was created by Mistress Ezada Sinn and Mistress Kennya. They wanted to organise an event where international Mistresses could network and build contacts, share experiences and just generally be Our wonderful selves.

http://www.femdomsummit.com

What can I say; the event delivered on all of this and more. I had high hopes attending, having reviewed the proposed programme, that there would be plenty of opportunities to really get to know people properly. This certainly happened and Mistress Ezada and Mistress Kennya struck the right balance with informal/formal with numerous opportunities to make connections, such as the day outing to Bran and Peles Castle, the lunchtime meet and greet, dinner and the more formal evening awards ceremony. At the time of the award ceremony we were all great friends and there was a nice sense of community and understanding. It was really refreshing to be among so many likeminded Women, from all over the world. Yes We did go wild at the afterparty but what happens at a Femdom afterparty stays at a Femdom afterparty; unless some of it is caught on film!

The Summit benefitted from not being too much of a whirlwind where you are rushing from thing to thing. There was time within schedule to enjoy the city and plan other activities with people you had met. The other big plus was a non restrictive dress code. This very much meant that We could be ourselves, not dressed in head to toe latex etc all the time. Which although I obviously enjoy it can sometime be restrictive in terms of comfort.

I loved every aspect of the event and even had chance to have a conversation over coffee with Mistress Sarah Dom for Her new YouTube channel. Its one you will not want to miss. We had a fabulous chat about ME and really getting to know who I am and what I am about. The channel is launching soon so keep an eye out.

At the Awards Ceremony on the final night I was surprised to be given an award. This now has pride of place in my playroom. Can you guess what it was for?

I had a fantastic time meeting and getting to know some amazing Women from all over the world and have plans to meet up with a number of them soon. Without the Summit this would have never happened.

I am grateful to Mistress Ezada and Mistress Kennya for creating and organising this event. So much time and work goes on behind the scenes to deliver the finished product. It really is a labour of love which they pulled off impeccably.

I cannot wait for next year and hope to see some old and new faces there. I will definitely return to Bucharest before then though to enjoy more of such a beautiful and fascinating city.

LS

Links:

https://femdomsummit.com/

https://twitter.com/FemdomSummit

https://twitter.com/MSarahDom

https://twitter.com/Mistress_Ezada

https://twitter.com/KennyaMistress

Hardsports Session Review – J

Hardsports Session Review – Jake

I had been thinking about trying hardsports for several years now and decided it was finally time to go for it. After some careful research, I contacted Lady Scarlett to enquire about her availability and whether she would be willing to see me. Having never visited a mistress before, I was initially a bit nervous. But Lady Scarlett’s first reply to my enquiry was already enough to make me feel relaxed and at ease. We discussed the session and what my main aim was, and set the time and date. On the day, getting to the location was easy.

The session started with a lovely chat where any residual nerves I may have had quickly disappeared. I won’t go into detail about the session, but I will say it was absolutely wonderful and I will treasure the memory for years. I got to explore a secret fantasy and feel proud about every aspect of it.

I fully recommend visiting Lady Scarlett. It was a real privilege and I am already looking forward to next time. Thank you mistress.

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Hardsports Session Review – Slave M

I have long fantasised about hard sports, I’ve played around the edges a couple of times but never done a full on hard sports sessions. The time had come to turn this fantasy into reality.

After doing extensive research on twitter / websites I tentatively approached Lady Scarlett. From the very outset she was extremely understanding (of my fetish and my nervousness) and just lovely, warm and approachable. I always knew I wanted coaxed / coerced not “forced”, so having someone I could build a rapport with was important.

I was very nervous prior to the session and arrived in plenty of time. The dungeon (The Peacock Parlour) was easy to find (my bus literally stopped outside) and very discrete – Lady Scarlett had provided clear and easy to follow directions.

Once I arrived we had a lovely chat before we began and covered everything that may happen in the session – I didn’t want to know exactly what was going to happen. I quickly realised she knew exactly what I wanted, both physically and emotionally and was delighted to leave it in her capable hands. I had agreed to pass complete control to her – I consented to no consent. Knowing fine well part of me would want to stop.

Lady Scarlett lead me into the very well equipped dungeon – laid out in front of me were various plastic sheets / absorbent pads etc – there was now no doubt this was happening, no longer a fantasy to wank over. This was real.

Lady Scarlett played with my nipples just to help me get into sub space then told me to lie on the plastic matting on the floor. I nervously did. She then proceeded to expertly tie me up leaving me helpless and spread eagle. She then did the most amazing breath play / intox scene which absolutely took me too my limits. Just as I was regaining my breath she put her toilet seat over my head and sat on it. I looked up and watched as her sphincter slowly opened and a poo appeared then fell into my open mouth, followed by another. Lady Scarlett then knelt beside me and fed me the poo in smallish pieces coaxing/guiding me along until I’d eaten 3/4 quarters of it. Realising I’d probably had enough she stopped and helped me clean myself up before a shower and brush of teeth.

The session way exceeded my expectations, we had joked before that it wouldn’t be same as scat porn and true it wasn’t – it was much better. The memory watching her poo fall from her into my mouth will live with me forever

The following day, as promised she texted just checking I was ok and no ill effects

If you are a nervous beginner, or indeed a seasoned expert I can’t recommend Lady Scarlett highly enough – she really is an expert in her chosen field.

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Hardsports Session Review – T

Extreme kinks are a daunting thing to approach anyone about, especially true when it’s broaching the “hardsport” subject. I’m an incredibly meticulous person by nature and found it hard to find the right person who put me at ease as a first-timer and who also I genuinely felt shared a mutual interest in the fetish.

I came across Lady Scarlett’s website/twitter a good while ago and felt she was exactly the person I was looking for. I put out the feelers and asked when she would tour my part of the country. I was in for a wait but… It was well worth it. Communication was clear and concise from the beginning, polite and informative.

On meeting in person, I was immediately amazed by how welcoming a person Lady Scarlett is as well as how absolutely stunning she was. Lady Scarlett is a great judge of character and I feel assesses and adapts to each client and the services they seek effortlessly (she completely understood that I’m not 100% into the submissive or BDSM culture). You want soft and nurturing? She’s the lady. Something more authorative? She’s the goddess you need… We discussed interests and boundaries, if a safeword would be required (I opted out as I trusted she wouldn’t abuse my consent as she is very accommodating and respectful).

The session was fantastic, I won’t divulge too much as I feel it’s an experience worth trying for yourself and going in without knowing what to truly expect just makes the whole thing more exciting. I will say however that my favourite part was worshipping Lady Scarletts bottom and feeling that little treat at the tip of your tongue as it slowly edges it’s way out.

Our session is a memory I will cherish for a long time. Lady Scarlett helped me go further than what I would thought possible, pushed my limits where required but understood the situation and showed me mercy when those limits were reached. She is a lovely person who rewards those who treat her well, who know how to listen, please and most importantly… Obey. I wish her every success in the future and perhap’s we’ll meet again? – T

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What Happens in a Hardsports Session

I always tend to get a lot of questions on this matter so to help you I thought I would put together this handy blog.

For a sub’s view I suggest reading the following by Scarlett’s flower.

https://scarlettsflower.wordpress.com/2018/12/07/shit-happens/

So what happens in a Hardsports session? Well it’s much like any other session but it involves poo. No two sessions are the same and people have different levels as to what they can take. I get novices undertaking their first foray after many days and nights of fantasising, and hardened veterans who have seen and done it all when it comes to poo.

Before a session we will fully discuss which of the two you are and what ultimately your goal is. You might want to consume for the first time, having tried and failed many times before. You might want to just get dirty and enjoy the sensation of my waste on you. I don’t go into full descriptive detail before a deposit is paid unless you pay my consult fee though. Unfortunately many of you want to jerk off at the thought and then not book. But I understand if you are a novice then you are approaching the situation with some trepidation and need some reassurance.

Here are some handy FAQs:

Is it safe/healthy?

Well a lot of fetish activities are not safe. Breathplay, needle play etc. There’s a risk and it’s the same with HS. Especially if you’re consuming. If you consume from someone there is a chance, if they have something in terms of a virus etc, that it can be passed on. There is also a risk if there is blood in the feaces that it is passed to you which also means a chance of contracting anything they might have. You also need to make me aware of any allergies you have. If I’ve ingested something you are allergic to it could exacerbate this.

How do you prepare?

Well I have a normal healthy diet. So that doesn’t change. I don’t drink heavily the day before a HS session and won’t take any painkillers. If I’m feeling unwell then I will postpone the session. I don’t use laxatives or anything else to prompt me to go. Everything that happens in session is part of the natural process.

How does a sub prepare?

Well it’s probably best not to eat a large meal beforehand as there is a chance you might throw up or at least gag/retch.

Forget what you’ve seen in porn etc. It often doesn’t happen like that or if so those slaves have been training for years.

You could consider playing with or trying your own to see what it’s like. But I understand most people only have an interest in consuming the gift from a Mistress.

What if I throw up?

Well it’s really a mind over matter thing. It’s shit. It does taste disgusting but it depends how strong your need is to consume and please me. To date no one in a session has vomited. (Well not a pro session anyway.) Maybe that’s because I threaten that you’ll have to consume that too.

Can you force me?

I can. And sometimes this is necessary to get you over the mental hurdle of consuming poo. But I also have to ensure that I don’t push you to a point where it’s going to be psychological damaging. Same as any no limits, no safe word, consensual non consent type session. I have to use my best judgement as to where and when to draw the line. When you can be pushed and when you need to stop. I know I’ve taken many people further than they thought was possible. I’m not going to give you full details on my forcing methods until you book and pay a deposit.

Do I have to eat it?

Ultimately I love it when you do consume some as then you take away a piece of me following our session. But it’s not necessary. I like to smear it and play with it. Use it in strapon fucking, sniffing and smelling etc.

Do you store it?

Generally no. Everything is delivered fresh in session so you know it’s directly from me and not someone else. I sometimes get requests for more than one load and therefore storage is necessary. These will always be from me.

What’s your favourite way to deliver HS?

Any and every way. I love to sit above you and deliver directly into your mouth or on your body. But I do particularly enjoy mixing scat and food play.

Can I clean you after?

If you have done particularly well then you may be rewarded with that privilege.

Will I smell after?

Well you’ll have the opportunity to shower and brush your teeth. So there should be no danger on this score. You might just imagine you smell.

If you want to discuss a session in greater depth before committing please book a phone consult. These are offered at £20 for 10 minutes.

International Femdom Summit – Bucharest 19-21 April 2023

Hardsports Session Review – J

Hardsports Session Review – Slave M

Hardsports Session Review – T

What Happens in a Hardsports Session

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