Not often you meet someone so in-tune with your kinks, but that’s Lady Scarlett; inauspicious beginnings, a normal session enquiry on the back of her twitter feed, at first glance same old same old, but then you suddenly as your framing the session you realise this is something out of the ordinary.

Firstly, as has been mentioned, she has an evil sense of humour both in and out of sessions, and her style reflects that this is her, not a characterture, totally real; total serious about her enjoyment; truly respectful of the people she plays with and, at least with my kinks, empathetic in the extreme. Reading both her posts and her friends & subs, it’s clear that those who know her also see this in her.

One of the other things that strikes me, is her natural position is to expect that people are as honest and trustworthy as she is; seeing and expecting the best in people is truly inspiring and not something to be undervalued.

Like some I have goals from our play, due to experience, you always feel hesitant to share them until a level of trust has been established (egos are such fragile things), nevertheless, it felt appropriate to share and the journey started. I have done three major sessions and “a let’s have some fun session”, and the major sessions have always gone further towards the goals with no signs of abating; and while its not been easy, Lady Scarlett is clearly committed to making it happen and gives a whole new meaning to the Sooty and Sweep show as well as clearly missing her calling as a phlebotomist.

As this is for her website, one final comment. If your serious about your kinks and you want to play with someone who is serious about her kinks, you really should play with Lady Scarlett, its an experience that you won’t forget, and you may well realise how ‘false’ some of your previous play partners have been.

Paul